Tuesday, June 28, 2011

46 Reasons I Love My Roomie!


1. Karen is chronically optimistic.
2. Karen has raised 6 amazing and beautiful kids!
3. She has a beautiful little granddaughter now (which seems impossible)!
4. Karen has been a great example that it is possible to truly forgive and let go.
5. Karen has the most beautiful eyes and her smile can light up a room.
6. She thinks I'm funny (albeit inappropriate and borderline crazy).
7. She teaches her girls to take care of themselves and to take the time to look good before they go out.
8. She knows how to pull the "take away" -- in life and in dating!
9. She has a rock-solid testimony despite the hurdles life has thrown at her.
10. Karen knows the importance of balance in life... and works hard to juggle her responsibilities accordingly.
11. Karen has a way of making everyone around her feel loved, appreciated, and important.
12. Karen is getting in touch with her inner nerd... and it's awesome!
13. She knows how to take a compliment without sounding arrogant.
14. She is determined to better herself and her situation.
15. She is willing to work hard for what she wants.
16. She wants others to feel success and happiness, too! So she takes the time to help others along her way.
17. She is easily amused!
18. She can watch movies over and over again... "Meet the Robinson's" anyone?
19. She is a spectacular pre-screener!
20. She lets me be a pre-screener, too!
21. She constantly says funny stuff without realizing it: "My yahoo is stuck." "Did you lock the door on the door?"
22. She knows how to laugh at herself.
23. She knows how to laugh at other people, too. Time for another Dee's Dance...?
24. She puts up with my awkwardness... even when I interrupt and finish her sentences. I'm working on it -- I promise! I can't help it if I'm a super guesser.
25. She is kind and loving to Hannah.
26. She has been a great example of how to be a better parent... especially as Hannah gets closer to becoming a dreaded "teen-year-old."
27. She welcomed me and Hannah into her home 2 years ago, and has always made us feel welcome. Without her kindness, we would probably be homeless right now.
28. She reminds me of how nice it can be to work together.
29. She has a big heart, with room to love everyone around her.
30. She knows how to block out the noise of children without getting as irritated as I used to.
31. She is patient.
32. She taught me that "we will make it work."
33. She lets me vent without feeling like a burden. And even more importantly, without feeling judged.
34. She knows how to have fun.
35. She likes going to the movies, too!
36. She helped me realize how delicious sushi can be!
37. She taught me how to be gracious when I feel pulled in every direction.
38. She shows me again and again that being a mother can be difficult and trying and exhausting and rewarding all at the same time.
39. She showed me that sacrificing your own needs and wants for your child(ren) only makes you love them more.
40. She reminded me that there's still hope for finding a good man out there!
41. She helped me to realize that I don't want to give up on dating entirely... at least not just yet.
42. She taught me that sometimes you have to treat yourself a little in order to keep giving yourself to your kids. (Thanks, again, for introducing me to Wendy! I think we need to call her again...)
43. She showed me that sometimes a Diet Coke and a donut is just what the doctor ordered.
44. She reminded me that a night out with girlfriends can cure a lot of problems!
45. Karen knows how to say "NO" when she really can't do something.
46. I feel a hurricane a-comin'!

Thanks, Karen, for being such a wonderful person and a terrific friend! Who knew that two months at Altiris would turn into this? I can't tell you how much you've blessed my life!

Much loves and hugs to you on your birthday. And always!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Home Sweet Home

I LOVE our new house!!!! It's still a rental, but it's FANTASTIC! It's the kind of place that I could settle into and be happy here for YEARS!

And with a huge family room downstairs, I might start hosting regular movie nights again. Woohoo!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Change is good

Hi All... In breaking news, I'm not dead. In fact, I'm feeling better lately than I have in a long time thanks to a really good therapist and some low-dose medication. Yay for modern medicine! I missed my brain...

In other news, I'm starting a new job soon. My last day at the State Bar will be Thursday, December 23.

My new job will be MUCH closer to home, as it is less than 10 minutes away rather than 35 minutes on a good day. The biggest benefit is that I will be able to spend more quality-time with my adorable Hannah-Bug. I plan on volunteering in her class more often, and getting home at a reasonable time will be a major blessing.

So here's to a new year and new opportunities!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

40 Reasons I Heart Cindy

My friend, Cindy, is having a BIG birthday today! Here are FORTY reasons why I love her:

1. She is real, real smart.
2. She has traveled extensively.
3. She is SUPER artistic.
4. I try to copy her drawings, but fail miserably... She doodles better than I can draw when I'm trying really hard!
5. She inspires me to dream big!
6. She sets ambitious goals and ACCOMPLISHES them!
7. She loves her boys unconditionally.
8. She has raised well-adjusted, funny, responsible young men that are a joy to be around.
9. She is devoted to giving her littlest guy all of the love, attention, and assistance that he needs.
10. She has been through hell, but doesn't show it.
11. She is witty... which I LOVE!
12. She thinks that I'm funny, too.
13. She treats my little Hannah with love and respect.
14. She cooks delicious food - and makes it look effortless!
15. She is patient with me.
16. She motivates me to never give up... especially with school.
17. She is opinionated!
18. She stays apprised of current events.
19. She loves to travel.
20. She likes to try new things... particularly hole-in-the-wall restaurants. So fun!
21. She is a strong, independent woman.
22. She has fun (and slightly CRAZY) stories.
23. She doesn't judge me.
24. She took me to get my first pedicure!
25. She is entrepreneurial.
26. She is a writer!
27. She is empathetic of other people's struggles.
28. She is a licensed interpreter for the deaf.
29. She is a teacher.
30. She is a scrapper... ;)
31. She helped me to create a super-awesome scrapbook for my mom's 60th birthday.
32. She is happy to have Hannah come over whenever I do, which saves me the limitations (and cost) of a sitter.
33. She makes delicious beverages!
34. She loves to sing... and is REALLY good at it!
35. She has offered to give Hannah voice lessons in the future.
36. She talks to her boys the way I talk to Hannah... like they're on our level.
37. She is generous - with her time, attention, and talents.
38. She strives to better the lives of others... and goes to great lengths to do so. Like all the way to Kenya...
39. She gets irritated by stupid people - JUST LIKE I DO!
40. Because she's an amazing woman, and I want to be like Cindy when I grow up!

Love you, Cindy-Lou-Who!!!

Friday, September 17, 2010

Happy Friday

My friend at work introduced me to this website, xkcd.com, a while ago. Remember my Nintendo Surgeon post? Same site... And the author posts new comics every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday so it's easy to enjoy regular fits of giggles. If you like math, science, Lord of the Rings, romance, Star wars, Firefly, or computers then you might like it too. Fair warning: a few of the comics contain "bad words" but most of them are just fine.

Here are a few of my favorite. A few of the pictures transferred over a little smaller, but any attempts to enlarge the pictures only made them too blurry to read. I've linked the title for each comic directly to that comic on the xkcd site, though, so it's easy to get to the original:


#702: Snow Tracking




#155: Search History



#87: Velociraptors

This one looked like my brother's handwriting.
I actually googled the author, just to see if it was really Mark. It's not.


And perhaps my very favorite:


May these comics bring a little laughter to your Friday... Like they did for me!

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Injuries and Imagination

Tonight, Hannah and I were having some snuggle time before bedtime. Admittedly, snuggle time has been lacking a little lately since we've both been having a hard time sticking to the schedule. So by the time she's getting into bed, I'm nearing cranky time and we're lucky to get everyone to bed without any tears... At any rate, tonight I had warned Hannah that she had about 2 minutes before I came in to attack her and kiss her face. So she was already in her jammies and ready for snuggles when I got there.

However, instead of just scooting over like normal, she rolled onto her left side and curled up with her body pillow. I started to sit by her anyway when she said, "My whole side hurts.. It might be from the cartwheel (which must have been amazing, since she also managed to jam a finger when she fell doing it). Or it might be from getting slammed in the car door." Another fun injury from playing with her new friends up the street... a friendship that I'm beginning to question...

Being the concerned mother that I am, I asked her where her side hurt and to let me see it. She pulled up the side of her shirt to reveal a thoroughly normal abdomen. So I said, "Where does it hurt?"

H: Right here. (circling most of her left side)
M: (still not seeing anything) Where?
H: Right here... Where it's preparing for a bruise.
M: It's what?
H: Preparing for a bruise. I can feel it.
H: (now pointing at a higher point on her rib) See... it's really pink here.
M: (slight pause) That's because you're alive.

Snuggle time continued as normal... In recounting her day, she told me all about her genius but failed plan to swing in the baby swing on the playground in the backyard. She explained that she does this all the time. From the way she described it, she seems to almost perch on the swing as her legs don't quite fit in the holes anymore... I really wish I had a picture of this pose. (Note to self: See if Hannah will pose for a picture in the baby swing.)

Not Hannah, but this is how the swing SHOULD be used...

It would have gone just fine, but I had the audacity to call her while she was swinging, so she had to stand up in the swing - Don't worry, Mom, I was holding on to the chains - and then jump off the back of the swing. It was a total surprise that she subsequently fell on her face and may or may not have eaten dirt and wood chips.

M: You were eating wood chips???
H: Only the ones that got in my mouth.

Clearly, this was all my fault. So we went on to discuss the rest of her day and how she'll always be sure to check in with me so I don't have to call her and make her fall out of baby swings.

And then she showed me how she'd drawn her name in block letters which she was planning on coloring for an unknown purpose. This reminded me that a friend of mine, Ryan (but she goes by Girl just to keep things obvious), has an interesting favorite color.


M: Girl's favorite color is rainbow.
H: Huh?
M: Rainbow.
H: Oh. She like all the colors.
M: No, her favorite color is rainbow.
H: So it's all the colors...
M: ...but put into a rainbow. So all the rainbow colors. At the same time.
H: (subtly irritated silence)
M: She might have made that color up.
H: Maybe you made HER up.

Touche.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Catching up on some old Hannah-isms

Ok - I went through a BUNCH of really old voice notes on my phone... Mostly of "Hannah-isms" that I should post. Here are a few gems that I found so far...

March 9, 2009
After hearing the song Gives You Hell by All American Rejects come on the radio, Hannah said this.

H: It's the Hell Song.
M: Well kinda. This song (which I really like but don't often leave on when Hannah is with me) is called "Gives You Hell."
H: It should really be called The Hell Song instead... Because he says "hell" alot.

Are there awards for awesome parenting? I'm surprised I haven't gotten one yet...

August 9, 2009
Hannah was just getting back home from visiting her Dad and his "sort of wife" Lesa. Lesa's 2 other children live with them, as well as their daughter together - Alyssa. Hannah and Mikayla, Lesa's then 12-year-old daughter, did not always do well. Apparently, Mikayla is really mean.

"She's worse than.... Casey (old neighbor-friend that was a little volatile), my dad, Grandma on a bad day, you on a bad day... all together. Plus 3. Which is pretty serious."

September 25, 2009
Playing Taboo with Me (M), Robin (R), and Grandma (G), while Hannah was giving the clues. Mom (Grandma) was getting a little tired so it was mostly me and RobRob guessing... This is a lengthy one (over 3 minutes on the recording), but the clues and the guesses were too fun to pass up.

#1
H: It's something that it helps you... Hang on. It helps you um...
R: Vin Diesel! (Or maybe she said baby seal... I've listened to it several times and can't tell... But I giggled after she said it, so it must have been good.)
H: No. It helps you work on important projects.
M: Is it a contractor?
H: No.
R: Computer.
H: No.
M: Um... a man.
H: No. It's like really cool ideas... like a clock.
M: An invention.
H: No! It's a tool...
M: A wrench
R: Screwdriver.
H: Yes! A screwdriver.
M: A screwdriver. Excellent.

#2
H: It's something that some people... It's something that fairy-tale people live in.
M: Cottages
R: Cheese
H: Yes.
M: Which one?
H: Cottage.
M: Really? Cottage? Excellent!
R: Cheese, Gromit!

#3
H: It's something that people use at work... I think. And it's a machine.
G: Car
M: Computer
H: No
R: Advanced calculator
H: No
R: Spinning wheel (Or fan blade? She was sitting across the room, so some of her comments were hard to hear when I play it back.)
H: No
M: Slide ruler
H: No. And it has the word "machine."
M: Ok... That's probably not good to say then.
G: Adding machine?
M: A fax machine?
H: Yes.
G: (peeking at the card) It IS a fax machine! Way to go!

#4
H: It's something that you can get books at.
R: A library.
H: (dejected) Yes... I don't think I was supposed to say books, though...
R: It's ok. We'll give it to you anyway.

#5
H: It's something that I do ALOT!
G: Talk
M: Talk? Sass?
H: No
M: Cry?
H: No
R: Dance
M: Laugh
H: No! Nooo....
R: Sing?
G: Draw?
M: Scream?
H: It's something that I'm getting right now.
M: Angry?
H: No. But it's...
M: Frustrated? Older? Tired? Sleepy?
H: No!!
M: I think it IS mad...
H: Yes. "Mad."
(laughing)

#6
H: I don't know if I know this one...
R: It's ok. We'll give it to you anyway. From whatever you say.
M: Just guess and we'll guess what you think it is.
H: Ok, I know it. It's a name.
R: Rigor mort. (Or Voldemort?)
M: Seven
H: Hahaha... No! It's a name!
R: Loch Ness Monster
H: ...and it's a student. A student name... And starts with an "a."
R: Plato?
H: And it ends with an "a."
M: uhhh...
G: Is it a famous name? (pause) Athena? (Side note: Amazing guess, Mom!)
H: (getting exasperated with our fruitless guesses) It's Ariana.
M: Ariana???
G: (peeking at the card) It's "arena."
M: So where did you get that it's a student name?
H: One of the clues was studium...
G: Oh! Stadium... arena!

Great clues, Bug! I loved it - and I love YOU!!!

More to come soon!